{Yevamot 114b}What is the basis for this requirement that the woman appears in mourning when telling over her loss? What is the basis for coming from the harvest? What is this famous incident?
Mishna:האשה שהלכה היא ובעלה למדינת היםBet Hillel say: We only heard regarding one who came from the {wheat?} harvest.
שלום בינו לבינה ושלום בעולם באה ואמרה מת בעלי תנשא מת בעלי תתיבם
שלום בינו לבינה ומלחמה בעולם קטטה בינו לבינה ושלום בעולם באה ואמרה מת בעלי אינה נאמנת
רבי יהודה אומר לעולם אינה נאמנת אא"כ באה בוכה ובגדיה קרועים
אמרו לו אחת זו ואחת זו תנשא:A woman who went with her husband to an overseas country.בית הלל אומרים לא שמענו אלא הבאה מן הקציר בלבד
If there was peace between them and peace in the world, and she comes back and says "my husband died," she may remarry, or "my husband died," {and there are no children} she may undergo yibbum.
If there was peace between them and war in the world, or arguments between them and peace in the world, if she came back and said "my husband died," she is not believed.
Rabbi Yehuda says: She is never believed unless she comes crying, with her clothing ripped.
They said to him: Both this and that may remarry.
{Yevamot 116b}
אמרו להן ב"ש אחד הבאה מן הקציר ואחד הבאה מן הזיתים ואחד הבאה ממדינת הים לא דברו בקציר אלא בהווה
חזרו ב"ה להורות כדברי ב"ש:
Bet Shammai say: Whether the one who comes from the harvest, or from the olives {picking}, or who came from an overseas country. They only spoke regarding the harvest because of the common case.
Bet Hillel retracted in order to rule like the words of Bet Shammai.
Tosafot suggests that during the wheat harvest, heatstroke is common and thus we might be more prone to believe that he died, and this is (I guess) the common case of causing death.
I may as well be fanciful, and suggest another common case, which Bet Shammai and Bet Hillel might be referring to -- Rut and Naomi's return from Sedei Edom. Ruth was a case of peh sheAsar peh sheHitir, for she was the source that she had married, as well as that she was widowed. Naomi, though, they knew was married when she left. (There are also issues in that their relationship precludes one testifying on the behalf of the other.)
We see at the end of the first perek of Rut:
Also, coming back from a harvest is the next pasuk:
On the day of Ruth's customary yibbum, it was at the end of the wheat harvest, as we read (second perek):
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